Found a slip of paper in my purse that says ...

A strong believer is better and dearer to Allah s.w.t than a weak one,
and both are good
Adhere to that which is beneficial for you
Keep asking Allah s.w.t for help and do not refrain from it

If you are inflicted in any way, do not say :
"IF I had taken this or that step, it would result into such and such",
but say only :
"Allah so determined and did as He willed"
The word 'IF' opens the gate of satanic thoughts

~ Prophet Muhammad s.a.w